Consanguinity Chart
(Blood relationships)

       Understanding just how we are related is important.  Kids always want to know who their cousins are, and explaining their blood relations to them can be complicated.  We Cubans add to this difficulty by adding into "the relative mix" all kinds of tios, tias and cousins that are really distant relatives or that aren't relatives at all.  With a little bit of attention, however, it's really not that difficult to explain to them just how they are related.  At least we can put a manageable label on someone, like "She's your 3rd cousin" or "He's your second cousin once removed".

       The task is made easier by the use of a consanguinity chart, but even that can get pretty complicated unless you have a familiar frame of reference to hang labels on.  That is why I have drawn up the chart below, using myself and my second cousin, Teddy Iturrioz, as an example to explain blood relations.

       The chart below shows that Fermin Iturrioz and Juana Llaguno (our common ancestors) had children, among whom were my grandmother, Cuca Iturrioz, and Teddy's grandfather, Totolo.  (Fermin and Juana had a total of four children, but Im going to ignore the other two, Josechu and Ramon, for the sake of simplicity).  (Also, Cuca and Totolo's real names were Juana and Teodoro, but you know Cubans and nicnames).

        Anyway, Cuca and Totolo were siblings: in other words, brother and sister to each other.  Cuca's daughter, Nena, and Totolo's son, Toto, were First Cousins.  Nena's son, Ernie (me), and Toto's son, Teddy, are second cousins to each other.  Teddy's daughter, Cristina, and my son Peter are third cousins.  Easy enough.  We can therefore see that when you have equal generational steps on both sides the number associated with the relationship is complete: 1st cousins, 2nd cousins, 3rd cousins, and so on down the line. 

       The complication sets in when you're trying to figure out how it is that someone is related to another person that is not of the same generation.  That's where the "once removeds" and "twice removeds," etc., come in.  There you first have to figure out how many steps down the generational ladder the two people have in common, and then figure in the number of additional steps you have to take on only one side of the chart in order to reach down to the person of the later generation.  See the next chart:    

 For example, Teddy is my second cousin.  That makes his daughter Cristina my "second cousin, once removed" because we have equal generational steps down from our common ancestors, Fermin and Juana, making us second cousins, plus one more unequal step on her side making her "once removed" from being my second cousin.  

       Cristina is my son Peter's third cousin because Peter provides the additional generational step on my side to give him the third cousin status with Cristina.  So then, what is my mother Nena's relationship to Cristina?  Nena and Crisitna are 1st cousins, twice removed!  Why?  Because Nena is Toto's first cousin and then there are two uneven generational steps down to reach Cristina.  

       And what about my grandmother Cuca and Cristina?  Cuca is Cristina's Great Grand Aunt and Cristina is Cuca's Great Grand Niece.  Cuca is Teddys grand aunt and, of course, Toto's aunt.  This is because the Aunt/Uncle-Niece/Nephew relationship is extended through the generations just like "Great grandfather" and "Great great grandfather."  There are no "removeds" that apply to the Aunt/Uncle-Niece/Nephew relationship.  Once an uncle, always an uncle to the children and grandchildren of that niece or nephew, and so on down the line.  Just add another "Great" as you go on down to each generation.    

       I hope this has made things a little clearer.  There is a wonderful Consanguinity Chart located at http://www.john-sons.com/Genealogy/Consanguinity%20Chart.htm

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